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	<title>Comments on: Staying Sane: Love Thyself</title>
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	<description>Using transparency and other management techniques to change who I am and what I'm about</description>
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		<title>By: abclarke</title>
		<link>http://blog.abclarke.com/2008/01/09/staying-sane-love-thyself/#comment-1229</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2008 15:55:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think embracing it is key, but not enough.

If it&#039;s a truly damaging weakness (mine is), then you need to either avoid situations that bring it out, or somehow find a way to turn it to your advantage.  I think that&#039;s what you wife means when she says &quot;more obsessive about being less obsessive.&quot;  My wife has often said similar things to me, and I&#039;m now trying to be more obsessive about completeness and balance in my life.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think embracing it is key, but not enough.</p>
<p>If it&#8217;s a truly damaging weakness (mine is), then you need to either avoid situations that bring it out, or somehow find a way to turn it to your advantage.  I think that&#8217;s what you wife means when she says &#8220;more obsessive about being less obsessive.&#8221;  My wife has often said similar things to me, and I&#8217;m now trying to be more obsessive about completeness and balance in my life.</p>
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		<title>By: GNP</title>
		<link>http://blog.abclarke.com/2008/01/09/staying-sane-love-thyself/#comment-1225</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2008 07:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thought it was interesting that you said: &quot;I will always be compulsively obsessed and addicted to something.&quot;  My wife keeps telling me I need to be more serious about being less serious and more obsessive about being less obsessive.  Perhaps I should just embrace the fact that I&#039;m serious and obsessive about things and just move on with my life instead of worrying about changing those things about myself.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thought it was interesting that you said: &#8220;I will always be compulsively obsessed and addicted to something.&#8221;  My wife keeps telling me I need to be more serious about being less serious and more obsessive about being less obsessive.  Perhaps I should just embrace the fact that I&#8217;m serious and obsessive about things and just move on with my life instead of worrying about changing those things about myself.</p>
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